Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.

I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you. 

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Hello, I’m the Dad Starting Over.

I’m  a divorced father of three kids who had his life turned upside-down when his wife had an affair and filed for divorce.


Over the past several years I have reprogrammed myself to become an overall happier and more successful dude. I've helped thousands of men do the same. Please feel free to read through my site and learn more about my philosophies and advice about relationships and this game we call "being a man in this crazy world".


I invite you to join our community of THOUSANDS of men just like you.

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Jul 9, 2020
A lot of the men I talk to are overwhelmed with a swirling storm of negativity in their life. Infidelity and divorce are a common two punch combination that leaves men feeling like they’ve been hit by a truck. So much stress. So much uncertainty. So much anxiety. Not only is their present and future called into question, but now their past is all in doubt.
Jun 30, 2020

I’ve read a lot of your posts on your website and the Facebook groups, and I see that you are pretty firm in your belief that when a woman cheats on you your marriage is over. I wanted to tell you about my situation to see what you think.

June 25, 2020
I saw your post about “chaos queens” and it really hit home for me. I thought I would share my story and you can pass it along to your readers.
Jun 19, 2020

Men that I talk to all do the same thing when describing their relationship problems … they focus on the pain they are feeling. They focus on their own shortcomings. They focus on the how and why they fucked up so badly (it’s usually not that bad).

Jun 6, 2020
I recently signed up for the DSO Fraternity and joined the Dead Bedrooms group on Facebook. I see that everyone is talking about shit tests and how to pass them (seems that cocky confidence is the way to go). My thought is that it seems to be hard to tell the difference between shit tests and just bad behavior.
LATEST PODCASTS
Jul 8, 2020
Let's talk about that four-letter word: PORN
Jul 8, 2020
In this episode, I talk about what I think every woman should know about what it takes to be a "better wife". The key word is VALIDATION.
Jul 8, 2020
The fact that nobody seems to care about you and your predicament should be accepted... and a freeing concept.
Jul 8, 2020
What exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?
Jul 8, 2020
The classic role of "Provider" is dead, gentlemen. It's time to wake up.
Jul 8, 2020
What exactly is "Real Love"? How do you find it? How do you maintain it? Is it for everyone?
Jul 8, 2020
Your wife cheated on you and left... now she's crawling back. The moment you've been waiting for. Do you take her back?
ABOUT ME

Hi there, I’m the DSO (Dad Starting Over).  My story is not an unusual one. For those who just stumbled upon this site by chance and have no connection to the subject matter… it may seem a bit “out there”. Trust me… it’s common. For the rest of us, you came here for a reason: You need to hit the restart button on life and redefine what it means to be a MAN in today’s world. You need a boost up over the wall and you’re scrambling for any little nugget of wisdom that will help you climb that extra inch.

Why a restart? Well, maybe life just kicked you in the teeth. If you’re like me and millions of other grown men all over the world… you were  told “I want a divorce”, or worse… you discovered infidelity. Your entire worldview has changed. Your head is spinning. What you thought was innocent and comfortable is now twisted and scary. Welcome to the real world, my friend. I’ve been there and done that.

My philosophies and advice are not cookie-cutter. They’re not politically correct. They’re not always nice. But.. they work. They make sense. They get results.

Want to know more about me? A great place to start is here:

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